Does He Love Me? WARNING! The 1 Critical Thing You Must Do Before Committing to a Man

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

How can you tell if he REALLY loves you? Is there a secret sign? Or maybe it’s something he says? Or maybe it’s how you FEEL when you are together? Or… maybe you can never really know, and instead you have to simply go with your gut and trust that it’s all going to work out in the end the way you want it to? In this article we are going to take a quick and easy look at how you can REALLY tell if he loves you, and the controversial (yet critically important) steps you can take to make SURE he does, before you settle down for the long haul.

Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a closer look below!

Filed Under: The Straight Scoop on Relationship “Regret”

I’m going to give you a pretty scary statistic. Some studies suggest that about 60% of women who have been married for more than 10 years, when asked privately, admit that if they could choose again, they would NOT marry their current partner. Pretty scary, right? And this does NOT include of course the many millions of women who are actively divorcing their spouse… making the actual number of unhappy relationships FAR higher than this scary statistic would suggest.

And when you look away from “ordinary” people and at the news, you see the incredible amount of infidelity and cheating and betrayal by politicians, and celebrities and famous people of ALL types and stripes, it should be no surprise that so many of us have begun to question whether true love exists at all.

The GOOD news?

It does! You simply need to take a few extraordinary steps in the BEGINNING of a relationship to get “clear” that the person you are with is in fact the right one for you.

Here is the thing: (and I know this is controversial, and NOT everyone believes it)

- I believe that each of us comes into this world to be “re-united” with their one true love.

- I believe that each of us has a soulmate, or a spiritual partner and that this person is already known to each of us on a “soul” level.

- I believe that if we dive DEEPLY into our own intuition, we can uncover the truth about who that person is, and FIND that person before it’s too late. (for us, and for them!)

- I also believe in the the “Karma of Connection”, or the spiritual law that says that if we do everything possible to find our soulmate, the universe will conspire to help bring that person into our lives. (and if we ignore our intuition, it won’t)

The KEY to finding out whether he truly loves you then, is FAR more powerful, and profound than simply asking the question and hoping for an answer that makes you feel good. It’s about the AURA of amore, and the serious search for a spiritual connection that is so deep and profound and moving, that you won’t settle for anything less (and unfortunately, far too many of us do)!

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How to Find True Love Quickly and Easily

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

How often do you find yourself wishing you could find true love?

Unfortunately, you’re not alone. With millions of singles out there, why is it so hard for most singles to find true love? It’s just human nature. We usually don’t hit it off with many people. The reality of the situation is that most of us are only compatible with few people we meet. And worse, the ones that we can get along with may not be attracted to us; it’s just as likely for us not to find them attractive.

If you’re like most singles, you probably spend too much time alone… much more than you would like. Some singles are just fine being alone, but most end up being unhappy and alone. Why? A big part of the problem is that many singles expect someone special to find them. It’s so common for singles to think: “I just have to be patient. Someday, love will find me.”

Maybe it has something to do with the fairy tales we used to believe in when we were young. Unfortunately, in our not-quite-so-fairy-tale real life, the prince or princess will probably not be coming someday… maybe not ever! And the “frog” you’ve been kissing is not going to turn into a handsome prince or a beautiful princess anytime soon.

Be honest! Do you really expect true love to find you? How long have you been waiting and hoping for this to happen? And how is that working for you? Maybe it’s time for you to have a different plan.

There’s no need to keep hoping and waiting for true love to find you. You can take control of your love life and your social life. Make it easier on yourself to find that special someone… sooner rather than later. How? You can take advantage of online dating services. Millions of singles now have found true love online — even those who never thought they could.

Finding someone special doesn’t have to be that hard. You’ll be just as happy if you find your true love quickly and easily. There’s no reward for doing it the hard way.

Don’t let your fears hold you back. If you’re serious about wanting to find true love, join one of the dating services available online. It’s usually free to browse and check out interesting singles. You owe it to yourself to just do it. You can meet new friends to hang out with. You can meet someone to date or you can meet your soul mate. You deserve to find your true love. You deserve to have more fun!

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The Very Best Things About Having Best Friends

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

There are a lot of things to be said about friendship. All through the years, people have relied on friends and their friendship for comfort and support and sometimes, tough love. After all, doesn’t everyone turn to their friends when they need people to talk to? Sometimes, the people that you are friends with are even closer and dearer than some family members that you have.

Friends make you laugh when you are feeling down and they cheer you up when you have the blues. They lend you an ear when you need it and they give you a shoulder to cry on when the tears just won’t stop coming. This is how important friends are. In this world, people value friendships that they have, so much so that there hare countless friendship quotes and sayings all extolling the virtues and values of having great friends in your life.

Some of the friendship quotes talk about how friends should be treated and how you should be treated as a friend. There are some quotes that describe the longevity of friendships and what you ought to do to make them last longer. If you do value your friends and the close bond that you guys share, you may try to read these friendship quotes and share them with your beloved friends who will surely appreciate them even more. The world may be a tough place to live in what with all the troubles and problems that crop up from time to time, but having great friends with you will surely make life easier to live.

Nothing beats having a set of really great friends who will be there to support you when you need it and bring you back down to earth if need be. Great friends are rare so it is pertinent that you all do your best to nurture that friendship or you might lose each other. Contrary to popular belief, friends are to be taken care of and not to be used and abused because that would make you parasites and not the good friends that you all think you are.

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Build Your Own Roadcase: Save Money As A Touring Musician

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

As a touring musician, you know that touring is an integral part of your success. If it weren’t for playing to new and established fan bases, your career would be nothing more than a sputtering mess. Unfortunately, touring is expensive. Between travel costs and purchasing reliable equipment, hitting the road can easily set you thousands of dollars in debt. Sure, it’s all part of a much larger investment in your musical career, but funding those early trips can be brutal on your wallet.

I learned long ago that cutting corners only results in problems. That is, unless you know how to save money and still end up with quality gear! While I’d never suggest that you sacrifice your beloved instruments (it’s your tone, after all), there are ways to reduce your initial travel expenses by opting out of expensive manufactured road cases and building your own.

All you really need is a basic understanding of simple carpentry skills, a table saw, a drill, a screwdriver or screw gun, some hardware and a place to work. You don’t even need a huge shop, I’ve built several of my rack cases in the corner of a friend’s back yard.

How To Build Your Own Rack Cases

Step 1: Measure, measure, measure.

I said that three times to emphasize it’s importance. You absolutely must know how big the gear your planning on carrying is, and how much space it has to fit in. Let’s say you’re building a road case for your guitar gear – not amps or the guitars themselves – but just the gear, such as cords, effects pedals, wireless devices and more. Make sure that the box you’re about to build is big enough to fit the longest and most odd-sized pieces, and has enough space to fit anything else you want to throw in it. Then measure how much space you have in your car, truck or trailer; remember, it’s got to fit in there, too!

Step 2: Order the hardware.

There are several places online that sell the stuff you need at a cost much lower than you’d find at your local hardware store, not to mention that most retailers would need to special order this stuff anyway. So just cut out the middle man and buy online from the beginning.

Here’s what you’ll need: Plywood, Toltex (skin), corners, latches, u-channel, piano hinges and handles. You can also order casters to roll the case, but that’s optional.

Step 3: Assemble the road case.

I’m not going to go into elaborate detail here, because I’m assuming you’ve got a decent amount of basic carpentry skills. But overall, you’re going to be building a “cube” to specs (you did remember to measure, didn’t you!), and then running the cube over the table saw to create a perfect-fitting lid.

Cover the entire box with Toltex, then drill out and install the additional hardware (latches, handles, casters, etc).

Step 4: Go Make Music!

Now you’ve got a professional grade road box and spent a fraction of the price that you’d spend on a quality used one. This should be plenty strong to withstand even the harshest touring conditions.

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Roulette System: 5 Biggest Gambling Mistakes You Should Avoid

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

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people wholely on pure luck to win nearly always lose.

If you want to win then make sure you follow these rules…

Mistake #1. Not setting a bank roll limit.

When you go and visit a casino only take a certain amount

of money with you for gambling purposes, and leave all your

plastic cards at home. When you spend your entire bank roll

move on and find something else to do, don’t bother getting

emotionally involved with the games you’re playing because

it’s the quickest way to spend much more money!

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When you choose a certain game to play at the casino, you

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5 Steps to Conquer Money Problems in Marriage

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

Money problems are one of the main reasons why married couples get divorced or separated each year. If you and your spouse are going through exactly the same problems, then you should seriously do something to effectively solve it. Meanwhile, you can follow the effective steps below to conquer money problems in marriage:

Step 1- Create and stick to a budget

Consult your partner and plan your family budget based on how much you have at hand. It is important that both of you can participate in budgeting your money. List down all important expenses, and if possible, try to keep a little in your savings account. This will keep you at ease in case there are emergency problems that you will have to cover. Also, make sure you don not go over your budget and stick to it to effectively cut down disagreements on financial problems.

Step 2- Separate your financial accounts

Joint accounts are not always applicable to all married couples. Sometimes, they are also a cause of non-stop arguments. If it doesn’t work out, then just separate your financial accounts. In fact, several couples completely separate their finances. If not, they have joint accounts apart from their personal accounts. The joint account will serve as savings for joint bills alone such as home loans and other family expenses.

Step 3- Tell no secrets!

You should also be responsible for the money you spend to ease down issues in your marriage. Always be honest with your spouse. Tell your partner what you have bought and exactly how much you have spent for it. Even if you make more money than your spouse, it does not mean you can also spend more of it. Also, you don’t have to control the money tightly. Always remember that when you entered marriage, what is yours is your spouse’s property as well, and vice versa.

Step 4- Consult professional assistance

If you can’t handle the problem yourself, seek help from a marital counsellor who specializes in financial issues. Since money is a common problem in marriage, these financial advisors have been efficiently aiding couples by offering advices on budget, as well as measures on cost cutting. However, it is also a different subject when one has splurging problems. You will need different professional assistance when it comes to this certain aspect.

Step 5- Share the same goals with your spouse

When it comes to using the money, you and your spouse should have the same objective. If you want to save money to buy new equipment at home or property, then your spouse should also think the same. If not, it can lead to problems with money as the main reason because your objectives are not matching up. Both of you should have the same thinking about money to reduce arguments. It is not likely to work out when one wants to save every penny while the other loves to shop.

Nevertheless, always remember that money can never buy true happiness. Your family is still the most important thing on earth. Thus, if you really want to save your marriage, you should learn to conquer and manage your monetary issues with your partner. By following the given steps above, you should be able to get rid of money problems in your marriage.

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The Parrot Asteroid: A New Car Stereo Receiver Previewed at CES 2011

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

Parrot are well known as a company that muscled into the Bluetooth hands free call market with a car speakerphone system that worked a whole lot better than Motorola’s then dominant models. The great advantage Parrot offered was voice commands that worked. Most voice controlled technology only responds to those few people who sound like machines! Since then, Parrot has come up with some surprising devices. Including a radio controlled helicopter that can be controlled with an iPhone or iPad.

Parrot’s new Asteroid, a new car stereo announced at CES 2011 is closer to the company’s roots. The Asteroid has voice control for hands free calls via its speakers and an AM/FM radio. It is also a hub with 3 USB inputs so that you can connect in an MP3 player, smart phone, tablet PC or laptop. One nice irony is that the Asteroid uses Android as its operating system but is very happy to hook up to Apple devices like the iPod.

An optional 3G dongle can be used in one of the USB ports and the unit ships with a GPS dongle. Use both and it allows the stereo to know where it is, as well as having internet access. It can then give you relevant traffic updates and even turn by turn navigation with the Parrot Maps app.

Like any conventional upscale car stereo, part of the device is detachable so you can take it with you as a security measure. Half an Asteroid is hardly worth hauling away for any criminal.

The LCD screen is a generous 3.2-inch LCD. This will give you song name and artist information in conjunction with internet radio services like Pandora. It is also possible to get the same information verbally by pressing a button. A voice synthesizer converts the information embedded in the song into sound. This slightly strange feature will probably help those drivers who hate to look away from the road for even a moment.

The system is due for release in late 2011 but no price has been given at the time of writing.

Will it succeed?

At first glance, the Asteroid seems unnecessary. Cars come supplied with stereos and there are FM transmitters to hook up phones and iPods very easily. GPS navigation devices are also widespread and many have hands free call capability when integrated with a smart phone. At the same time, three USB ports, the ability to get traffic updates and navigation, internet radio and make hands free calls will certainly appeal. For me it covers all the important things I want in car. For some people it might just be too much and unnecessarily complex.

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Some Sayings Are For the Birds

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

We humanoids are fascinated by and have several proverbs based on birds. Perhaps we are fascinated by their singing and twittering as well as the ease with which they fly wherever and whenever they fancy. Meanwhile we earthbound creatures have to buy airline tickets, take a cab to the airport and wait in long security lines. As for me, I don’t envy the birds at all. The late waking birds I can understand, but I doubt the sanity of the early birds, you know, the ones that “get the worm”. Why anyone would get up early to breakfast on a squiggly worm, is beyond me. Ham and eggs, I can understand, but a slimy worm, no way.

Occasionally I hear people talking of “killing two birds with one stone.” I am surprised that the Audobon society has not yet objected to this proverb which smacks of avicide. This proverb suggests a deep rooted anger, possibly originating from people whose faces or cars were suddenly “decorated” by a flying bird. However, I would appeal to these people to reconsider their attitude. After all, birds are highly artistic beings-they love to sing and they love to paint. They are well equipped for the former. However, for painting, they are not equipped with hands, so they use another part of their anatomy to express their artistic inclinations.

An old proverb maintains that “birds of a feather flock together” but in this era when people are linked in by the internet, it might be better to say that people of similar interests “tweet” on the same log, sorry “blog”.

We often use the appellation “bird brain” for a person with limited intelligence. However, I believe this is an unjustified insult and a grave injustice to the avians. Birds, after all are quite talented and intelligent. They are accomplished singers and painters. Besides, they are expert navigators; going great distances without a compass or GPS whereas I get lost even with written directions and a GPS. I think this term “bird brain” is a tweeting shame.

Finally I abhor the saying “A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush”. Firstly, why would anyone want to have a bird in his hand?. It would be very uncomfortable for both the holder and the holdee; birds are meant to fly freely and not to be grasped in the hand. Secondly, the poor bird would have no company. Third, the bird might decide to express its “painting” abilities on the holder’s hand. Finally, two birds in the bush are much better off, they have company and can chirp and tweet to their heart’s content. If I might say so, this saying will not fly.

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Escort Redline Radar Detector Review

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

The Escort Redline is Escort’s most sensitive and effective radar detectors. With superior range on all bands, with laser included, this is Escort’s most technologically advanced detector available.

Every radar detector user knows that range and sensitivity are what set apart normal from extraordinary detectors. The Redline is no exception. With range that is superior to almost every other detector available, users of this device will not be disappointed.

With the brand exclusive dual antenna design, this device has amazing radar detection range. Forward-facing radar against the Redline is easily detected from miles away. Early detection is extremely valuable to all drivers, and this device will provide ample warning to any upcoming threat.

As with most other Escort detectors, Laser sensitivity is lacking compared to other detectors in their class. The Redline however, is again, one of the best at laser detection. Through independent testing, the Redline will destroy the competition and will remain in the top few radar detectors to have such great laser sensitivity.

Another great feature is the RDD stealth. Virginia and Washington DC are the only two states in the US where radar detectors are not allowed in passenger vehicles. In these two states, police will utilize a device called an RDD (radar detector-detector) such as the Spectre. The Redline is fully stealth to all RDD’s including the Spectre. This is extremely helpful for drivers who may often cross state lines who are unaware of the laws of the state. For example, a driver is using the Redline for a road trip. He unknowingly crosses into Virginia where radar detectors are illegal. Instead of waiting to get pulled over, ticketed, or having the device confiscated, the Redline will go completely unnoticed under the eye of an RDD. This will save the user from speeding tickets, as well as possible tickets for owning a banned device.

A feature loved by many enthusiasts is the ability to fully program and customize Escort Redline radar detector settings. The main setting which is altered is the display meter. From the factory, the display will identify the strongest band and alert. Switching the meter to “ExpertMeter” allows the display to show all bands which are being detected, all at once. This is particularly useful if there are multiple false radar sources in an area, but there happens to be an officer on patrol at the time. While most other detectors would falter in high source areas, the Redline will simply display all bands in the area, and let the user decipher between the threats and non-threats.

The display is also easily changed to a mode known as “SpecDisplay”. This is like the original “Bar Graph” display, but instead of signal strength, the band frequency is displayed. Only experienced users should use this setting though because if the level of radar knowledge that is required to rule out a false alarm from a threat.

Unfortunately, this Escort radar detector uses the same window mount as all the others from this company. Most users find that while the weather and temperature fluctuates outside, the suction cups tend to become loose and fall off. Using the original suction cup bracket is basically putting an expensive, high quality at risk of falling with a possibility of breaking. Escort does offer other bracket types which are recommended to protect your investment.

Escort’s Redline is a great detector. Anyone who buys this device will not be disappointed by its great range and sensitivity.

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How Technology Can Aid a Long Distance Relationship

Posted on November 22, 2011 by rajkimancn

Dating long distance is difficult. In fact most couples do not survive a long distance relationship after 2 years. The challenges of keeping the spark becomes too much and takes its toll on a couple to eventually just call it quits.

Phone calls are crucial in a long distance relationship because hearing someone’s voice helps to reconnect even with miles apart. Emails are pretty cold and should not be really used in a distance relationship unless it is to email a flight schedule etc for meeting up.

Having a long distance relationship is a bit easier to accomplish and overcome today thanks to technology. Here are some things you can do to keep your connection alive and thriving until you can see each other again.

1.) Text messaging can keep daily communication alive. Send your sweetie a good morning text and a goodnight text everyday; or at least to the best of your ability. You can also carry on a conversation throughout the day through text messaging as well.

2.) Long distance movie date nights. It’s cheesy, I know but it works. Rent the same exact movie from Redbox or your favorite movie rental store. Play the movie at the same time and while over the phone watch the movie together. You can also ditch the phone and just do webcam movie nights doing the same thing only using your laptop’s webcams. This way you can still hear one another laughing or what not.

3.) Skype chat. Skype allows you to webcam and voice chat for free using a program downloaded to your desktop.

4.) Fring. Fring is the new cell phone application that works with iPhone and Android for live video calls. Now you can chat while seeing your significant other’s face no matter where you are.

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